James
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Registered: 11/19/07
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My situation:
- Last year, high school - Definetly not going well (much absence).
- Don't have the best "identity" in class and those who are in the same grade. I've changed a lot since though.
- I feel some other girls from lower grades dig me. I caught many looking at me.
- Never had some sexual experience with the opposite sex. (maybe I'm just too afraid?)
- Feeling confident, because I'm grounded most of the time and I've worked out in almost 5 years, so my body the girls would like  .
- Still practicing stuff I like and it's the best thing I've done for myself ever. It keeps me focused so I don't get too many mood swings.
- I like myself, very much. I think I'm too kind sometimes though.
- Don't have many close friends, only 2.
- My social-circle isn't good (if I have any lol).
- I got a/half, year left in HS.
- Have a very good relationship with my mom, not so good with my father, but most of the time I try to understand him.
A little about me
I'm 18, I Love my hobbies, maybe some of them is waste of time and I'm thinking of erase those who doesn't give to my life, but only takes time from my life.
I love watching celebs like Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Johnny Depp, Hugh Hefner, Jackie Chan, Ryan Reynolds.
I want to travel the world some day.
All the best,
James
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seanmessenger
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kick as much ass as you can in this last year of mandatory school (do all you can and max out your grades) and focus on where you can go next.
personally i'd find the coolest best most fun most social university i can get my ass into, and go there and go all out for the first year, and then start thinking about either a year in another country studying (or something like Erasums) or travel.
and... figure out a way to get yourself a job waiting tables, or, better still, tending bar. it's a skill that will serve you for life.
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James
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Quote: start thinking about either a year in another country studying (or something like Erasums) or travel.
That you mean Erasmus university at Rotterdam, right?
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seanmessenger
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Dunno for sure. I just know that there are a lot of people from different countries here in Poland who come here as part of "Erasmus," and my roommate here is looking to do the same to do a semester in either Sweden or Barcelona.
Take advantage of EVERY chance you can make to travel when you are young. Hell, I might go back in time and join the Army if I could just so I could see more...
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Ivan
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Quote: Originally Posted by JamesQuote: start thinking about either a year in another country studying (or something like Erasums) or travel. That you mean Erasmus university at Rotterdam, right?
I'm pretty sure what Sean is talking about is the university exchange program in the European Union called Erasmus. Just google it and I'm sure you'll find what you need.
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KING_Darko
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Just start putting yourself out there in little ways each day. Take small risks at being more social, laugh at peoples' jokes, be friendly. It sounds like you want to expand your social circle and ultimately get laid. Start by putting yourself out there a little bit more each day.
As far as these girls eyeing you, talk to them. If you see them in the halls just smile and say hi.
It doesn't sound like you have a whole bunch of insecurities or confidence issues. You're in a really great position. You are healthy, mature and have a lot of self-insight. Girls are already attracted to you, which is more than you can say for a lot of guys at your school I bet.
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